🧓 I'm 78... I Wasted 60 Years Being The "Perfect Woman" (Don't Do This) For many women, a lifetime of saying yes feels like the right thing to do — especially after 60. But what most women are never told is that always being the “perfect woman” can slowly cost you your identity, your energy, and your joy. In this video, a 78 year old woman shares the hard truth she learned after spending 60 years putting everyone else first. This is not a story of blame or bitterness. It is a quiet warning, and